What’s something you believe everyone should know.
By Tracy Schruder
I firmly believe that everyone should understand that our words have consequences. We can never escape our tongues so, use it wisely. Communicating honestly through talking is the best way to show our true selves. Being truthful in our interactions is paramount. Truth is a divine energy that exists for our highest good, and it’s unchangeable.
Dishonesty or lying is detrimental to our overall well-being, not because of external consequences, but because of the internal toll it takes.
When we lie, we don’t just create a false narrative; we also have to maintain it. We have to remember the lie, the backstory, and the details that support it. This is an extremely draining process. The fear of being exposed, the guilt, and the shame that follows can be overwhelming. We judge ourselves on our readiness to defend the lie, and this constant stress pulls us out of the magic of honesty in our lives.
On the other hand, honesty brings freedom. When we speak truthfully, the right words come to us naturally. We don’t have to worry about maintaining a facade or defending a lie. We can be present, and we have faith in our words because we know they’re true.
Lies can deeply hurt people, not just the person being lied to, but also the person telling the lie. When we’re on the receiving end of a lie, we can feel it in our gut. It can be emotionally draining to listen to the lie and the elaborate story that supports it. Sometimes, it’s hard to confront a liar, especially if it’s someone we love. We might feel embarrassed for them or worried about causing a rift.
Telling lies about someone else is a destructive form of communication that often stems from jealousy or feelings of inadequacy. It can wreck reputations, destroy relationships, and once trust is lost, it’s hard to regain.
Being honest with ourselves is the first step to being honest with others. When we lie to ourselves, we create a disconnect with our higher selves and others. It’s a dirty feeling with a host of negative side effects. On the other hand, purging lies and telling the truth can be incredibly rewarding. When we become truthful, we can be forgiven, not just by others, but also by our higher selves, as well. We come to understand the value of honesty and its freeing energy.
The truth always comes out, and it’s essential to respect its power. Reality is what it is, and it has its own power in truth. We fall short of that power when we try to manipulate it. I believe that honesty is something we should all strive for, despite any perceived gains we might think we can achieve by bending the truth.
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