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  • My Morning Routine: The Key to Productivity

    When do you feel most productive?

    By Tracy Schruder

    I’m a morning person, and my day begins at 5:00 am sharp. After years of waking up at this hour, my body has adjusted to this rhythm, and I rarely need an alarm clock. Even if I miss a night’s sleep, I tend to wake up around the same time, ready to tackle the day. I’ve always found myself to be more driven and productive in the morning.

    My morning routine is designed to set myself up for success. It starts with a body check-in, followed by a guided meditation session that lasts anywhere from 30 to 60 minutes, depending on my emotional state. This mindfulness practice helps me clear my mind and focus on the day ahead.

    After meditation, I enjoy a couple of cups of coffee and a glass of water. The caffeine kick starts my day, while the water keeps me hydrated. If the weather permits, I head outside for some stretching exercises, which helps loosen up my muscles and gets me moving.

    Next, I tidy up the house, which helps me feel organized and in control. Another cup of coffee and a nutritious breakfast follow, giving me the energy I need to tackle my tasks.

    The productive part of my day begins when I open my email and connect with my clients and students. I then check my schedule and book appointments, which usually takes me to around noon. Every other day, I take a break to walk for 3 miles and do 150 reps with hand weights, which helps me stay physically active and focused.

    I’ve found that my morning routine is essential to my productivity. The quiet morning hours allow me to focus on my tasks without distractions, and I accomplish more in the morning than I would later in the day. While I sometimes squeeze in an extra hour of meditation in the afternoon, my morning routine sets the tone for the rest of the day. By prioritizing my mental and physical well-being in the morning, I’m able to tackle my tasks with clarity and drive.

  • My Favorite Emojis: Spreading Joy and Wonder

    What are your favorite emojis?

    By Tracy Schruder

    My favourite emojis are:

    😊🤗🌺🙏💫

    They are the first five in my list because I use them all the time. They are my favourite because the messages they convey hold a special meaning to me. Let’s dive into what each of these emojis means to me:

    – Smiling Face 😊:

    I’m all about spreading happiness and positivity through my messages. This emoji represents the joy and warmth I aim to convey in every conversation.

    – Hugging Face 🤗:

    I love sending hugs and virtual squeezes to the people I care about. It’s my way of showing affection and kindness, even from a distance.

    – Hibiscus 🌺 :

    For me, the hibiscus flower represents the beauty and wonder of nature. I use this emoji to express my appreciation for the lovely things in life, whether it’s a stunning sunset or a kind gesture from someone. I also like to share this one with my girlfriends because we all love getting flowers, especially on tough days.

    – Praying Hands 🙏:

    This emoji holds a special meaning for me. I use it to express gratitude, say thank you, or acknowledge the unseen source of all things. It’s a way for me to connect with something greater than myself and show respect.

    – Dazzling Star 💫:

    This emoji represents the magic and wonder of living. I use it to express my awe and appreciation for the mysteries of life and the universe.

    I’m intentional about the energy I bring to my conversations, and these emojis reflect that. I’m all about spreading love, kindness, and positivity, and I rarely engage in negative talk through messages. If there’s an issue, I’d rather have a real-time conversation to resolve it.

    In conclusion,

    For me, these emojis represent more than just symbols – they embody the energy and intention I bring to my interactions. They’re a reflection of my commitment to spreading love, gratitude, and wonder, and inviting others to do the same.

  • Grounded

    By Tracy Schruder

    I walk through morning dew-soaked grass,

    My feet sensing the whole planet’s mass.

    A fluttering relief encompasses my toes,

    Spreading through my feet, as the earth below knows.

    Wet and cool to the touch, I feel no damp or chill,

    Every step a delight, my senses stand still.

    I become present with the breath’s gentle flow,

    Energy coursing up my legs, through muscles aglow.

    My skin, a magnificent sensation,

    Ever-present, a coating I wear with each creation.

    Filled with nerve and sensory stimulation’s might,

    Antennas engaged, I feel every single spark’s light.

    In this moment, I’m one with the earth’s delight,

    Grounded, connected, and shining with inner light.

  • A Missed Opportunity: What I Wish I’d Done Differently

    Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?

    By Tracy Schruder

    Looking back, I recall a time when I didn’t take action on an opportunity that could have potentially changed the course of my career. I was 23 years old when I was recruited by Choice Hotels Canada to be the midnight auditor at Day’s Inn in Brockville, Ontario. Initially, I accepted the position and excelled in my training, demonstrating my ability to sell and process rooms, as well as provide excellent hospitality to guests.

    However, as time went on, I found the demands of the job overwhelming. Managing the scheduling for the housekeeping staff proved to be a significant stressor, and balancing two jobs and school left me exhausted. After four months, I made the difficult decision to quit.

    In hindsight, I wish I had approached the opportunity differently. Instead of juggling multiple responsibilities, I wish I had focused solely on the midnight auditor role and my education. With dedication and hard work, I might have been able to move up the corporate ladder and secure a leadership position within the company.

    Although I don’t regret the choices I made, I believe that my youth and inexperience at the time contributed to my decision to quit. If I had been older, perhaps in my 30s, I might have taken the job offer more seriously and been better equipped to handle the challenges that came with it.

    This experience taught me valuable lessons about prioritizing my goals and being mindful of my limitations. While I may not have taken full advantage of the opportunity at the time, I’m proud of the path I’ve chosen and the success I’ve achieved. Nevertheless, it’s interesting to reflect on what could have been, and I’m grateful for the wisdom gained from the experience.

  • The Anxiety of Unexpected Doctor’s Appointments

    What makes you nervous?

    By Tracy Schruder

    As someone who’s generally comfortable visiting the doctor for common ailments like colds or ear infections, I’m often surprised by the anxiety that creeps in when I receive an unexpected call from my doctor requesting bloodwork and a visit. It’s as if the unknown diagnosis creates a sense of unease that’s hard to shake off.

    The Fear of the Unknown

    At the core, we all tend to believe we’re healthy unless proven otherwise. However, when a doctor initiates a visit without an apparent reason, it’s natural to feel apprehensive. My past experiences have contributed to this anxiety, particularly a misdiagnosis that lasted six years. It was a challenging time, and the fear of it happening again still lingers.

    The Importance of Trust and Self-Care

    Despite my concerns, I have faith in my medical team and their ability to provide quality care. Currently, they’re keeping a close eye on a couple of health issues, and I’m grateful for their attention. When anxiety starts to feel overwhelming, I turn to exercise and meditation to calm my nerves. These self-care practices help me stay grounded and focused on the present moment.

    Finding Strength in Uncertainty

    I know I’m not alone in feeling nervous about unexpected doctor’s appointments. It’s natural to worry about the unknown, but I’ve learned to cope with these feelings by trusting my doctor and myself. While I’ll always feel a bit anxious until the visit is over, I’m confident in my ability to handle whatever life brings my way. By acknowledging my fears and taking care of myself, I’m able to face uncertainty with a sense of resilience.

    Conclusion

    Unexpected doctor’s appointments can be daunting, but it’s essential to approach them with a mix of faith in our medical team and self-care practices. By acknowledging our fears and taking steps to manage anxiety, we can navigate these situations with greater ease. Whether it’s through exercise, meditation, or simply trusting in our healthcare providers, we can find the strength to face uncertainty head-on.

  • A Tribute to Pope Francis: A Man of Compassion and Honesty

    Pope Francis

    By Tracy Schruder

    As someone who isn’t Catholic, I’ve had the privilege of following Pope Francis’ journey through the media, and I’ve been deeply moved by his unwavering commitment to compassion, honesty, and understanding. Despite our differences in faith, I’ve come to admire his ability to connect with people from all walks of life, regardless of their religious beliefs or views. His message of love, kindness, and acceptance has resonated with me, and I believe it’s a testament to his remarkable character.

    A Legacy of Love and Service

    Over the years, I’ve witnessed the passing of five popes, from Paul VI to Francis. Each has left their mark on the world, but Pope Francis’ dedication to social justice, environmental stewardship, and interfaith dialogue has been particularly inspiring. His encyclical “Laudato Si’” has become a rallying cry for those working towards a more sustainable future, and his advocacy for the poor and vulnerable has reminded us all of the importance of compassion and empathy.

    A Champion for the Marginalized

    Pope Francis’ commitment to serving the marginalized and vulnerable has been a hallmark of his papacy. He’s spoken out on issues like income inequality, immigration, and climate change, challenging us all to think more critically about our role in creating a more just and equitable society. His actions have shown us that even small acts of kindness and compassion can have a profound impact on those around us.

    A Bridge-Builder Between Faiths

    One of Pope Francis’ greatest strengths has been his ability to build bridges between different faith communities. He’s reached out to leaders of other faiths, fostering greater understanding and respect. His visits to synagogues, mosques, and other places of worship have demonstrated his commitment to promoting interfaith dialogue and cooperation.

    A Legacy That Will Endure

    As the world says goodbye to Pope Francis, we’re reminded of the power of his legacy. His message of love, compassion, and service will continue to inspire people of all faiths and backgrounds. As the Vatican prepares to appoint a new pope, we can only hope that his successor will continue to build on the foundations laid by Pope Francis, promoting a more just, equitable, and compassionate world for all.

    Thank you for reading 😊🙏

  • How I Unwind After a Stressful Day

    How do you unwind after a demanding day?

    Laughter

    By Tracy Schruder

    After a demanding day, I find relief in watching funny videos and television shows that make me laugh. This simple pleasure has a profound effect on my stress levels, allowing me to shift my focus away from the pressures of the day. Interestingly, laughter also triggers memories of past stressful situations that, in hindsight, have become humorous anecdotes.

    One such experience that comes to mind is a particularly harrowing incident from my time working in a factory on the paint line. The machinery consisted of moving hangers that suspended metal pieces above shoulder height, carrying them into an electrified paint system. On this particular day, I was preoccupied with my thoughts and not fully present. Before I knew it, one of the hangers caught my shirt sleeve at the shoulder, lifting me off the floor and propelling me towards the dangerous machinery. Thankfully, my boss spotted the situation and shut down the line just in time. I was yelling, and my heart was racing.

    At the time, the experience was terrifying, and the aftermath was stressful. We had emergency safety training, which meant everyone had to stay an extra hour after their shift. Some co-workers were understandably frustrated, but were ultimately glad I was okay and took it easy on me. Some of them actually found it quite funny and giggled about the whole situation. I reflected on the incident later, I realized that laughter could be a powerful antidote to stress.

    When I shared the story with my husband, his reaction surprised me. Instead of offering sympathy, he burst out laughing. Initially, I was taken aback, but his infectious laughter soon had me giggling too. The relief was palpable, and we spent the rest of the evening chuckling about the incident. For weeks afterward, whenever he asked about my day, he’d smile and say, “Any more paint line adventures?” and we’d laugh together.

    This experience taught me a valuable lesson about the importance of humor in coping with stress. By choosing to see the lighter side of unfortunate events, I’ve found that I can alleviate some of the tension and anxiety that comes with them. When all else fails, I turn to my favorite comedies, and laughter does the rest.

    Conclusion

    In the end, laughter is a potent tool for unwinding after a stressful day. By finding the humor in challenging situations and allowing ourselves to laugh, we can shift our perspective and reduce tension. Whether it’s watching funny videos, sharing humorous stories, or simply enjoying a good comedy show, laughter has the power to transform our experiences and leave us feeling lighter, freer, and more at peace.

    Thank you for reading 😊🤗🙏

  • Online Gaming in Canada: A Double-Edged Sword

    By Tracy Schruder

    Online gaming has become a popular form of entertainment in Canada, with many residents participating in various forms of online betting and gaming. But when did online gaming become legal in Canada, and what are the pros and cons of this industry?

    When Did Online Gaming Become Legal in Canada?

    Online gaming became legal in Canada in 2021, when the Canadian government passed legislation allowing provinces to regulate online gaming. This move paved the way for provinces to launch their own online gaming platforms, providing Canadians with a safe and regulated environment to participate in online gaming.

    Pros of Online Gaming

    Convenience:

    Online gaming allows players to participate from the comfort of their own homes, 24/7.

    Variety:

    Online gaming platforms offer a wide range of games, including slots, poker, and sports betting.

    Economic benefits:

    Online gaming can generate significant revenue for provinces and create jobs.

    Cons of Online Gaming

    Addiction:

    Online gaming can be highly addictive, with many players experiencing problems with compulsive behavior.

    Financial risks:

    Online gaming can lead to financial losses, debt, and financial instability.

    Mental health concerns:

    Online gaming has been linked to increased stress, anxiety, and depression.

    The Addictive Nature of Online Gaming

    In my opinion, online gaming is highly addictive and can be harmful to individuals and their families. A study published in the Journal of Behavioral Addictions found that online gaming addiction affects approximately 1.2% of the Canadian population, with symptoms including neglect of responsibilities, withdrawal, and continued use despite negative consequences.

    Stats on Winning and Losing

    According to a report by the Canadian Gaming Association, the odds of winning a significant prize in online gaming are extremely low. For example:

    – The odds of winning a jackpot on a slot machine are approximately 1 in 13,983,816.

    – The average return to player (RTP) for online slots is around 95%, meaning that for every $100 wagered, players can expect to lose $5.

    Recovering from Online Gaming Addiction

    Fortunately, there are resources available to help individuals recover from online gaming addiction. According to the Canadian Centre on Substance Abuse and Addiction, some effective strategies for recovery include:

    – Seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor

    – Joining a support group, such as Gamblers Anonymous

    – Engaging in alternative activities, such as exercise or hobbies

    Statistics on recovery from online gaming addiction are promising, with one study finding that:

    – 55% of individuals who sought treatment for online gaming addiction reported significant improvements in their symptoms.

    – 71% of individuals who participated in a support group reported reduced symptoms of online gaming addiction.

    As I reflect on my own experience with online gaming, I’m reminded of the devastating impact it had on my life. I turned to gambling as an escape from my problems, but it quickly spiralled out of control, consuming hours, days then weeks of my time and draining my finances. The self-neglect that followed was suffocating, and the feelings of self-loathing and disgust still linger. I’m disappointed and angry with myself for losing sight of what truly matters and for squandering money that could have been spent on meaningful experiences. But I’m determined to move forward, and that’s why I’ve excluded myself from all gaming sites and am working hard to rediscover myself. Through this blog post, I hope to help others avoid the pitfalls I encountered and find a healthier path forward. By sharing my story, I aim to support those who may be struggling with similar issues and encourage them to seek help and reclaim their lives.

    In conclusion, 

    while online gaming can be a fun and entertaining activity, it also carries significant risks, including addiction and financial losses. By understanding the pros and cons of online gaming and seeking help when needed, Canadians can enjoy this activity responsibly and minimize its negative consequences.

  • Navigating the New Normal: Covid-19

    How have you adapted to the changes brought on by the Covid-19 pandemic?

    by Tracy Schruder

    We have adapted well to the changes brought on by the Covid-19 pandemic.
    My husband and I worked through the whole thing, so, we didn’t really feel the pinch from it all. We don’t travel by airplane and don’t anticipate going anywhere, any time soon, therefore, the new rules would not effect us. However, Things have changed as far as the government and their level of control. I find that unsettling.

    The Canadian government has enacted several pieces of legislation, such as the Quarantine Act and the Aeronautics Act, to address the pandemic. These laws have granted the government increased emergency powers, including the ability to issue orders and regulations to ensure public safety. 

    Travel Restrictions and Border Measures

    To slow the spread of the virus, the government has implemented travel restrictions and border measures, such as mandatory quarantine, testing requirements, and restrictions on non-essential travel. These measures have been adjusted over time as the pandemic has evolved. 

    Economic Support and Relief

    The government has also introduced various economic support and relief measures, including the Canada Emergency Response Benefit (CERB) and the Canada Recovery Benefit (CRB), to help Canadians and businesses affected by the pandemic.

    Impact on Individuals and Communities

    The changes in government control have had a significant impact on individuals and communities across Canada. Some of the effects include:

    Increased surveillance and enforcement:

    The government’s increased emergency powers have led to concerns about privacy and individual freedoms.

    Economic hardship:

    The pandemic has caused significant economic disruption, leading to job losses, business closures, and financial hardship for many Canadians.

    Social isolation and mental health concerns:

    The travel restrictions, social distancing measures, and lockdowns have taken a toll on Canadians’ mental health and well-being.

    Inequitable access to healthcare and resources:

    The pandemic has highlighted existing health inequities, with some communities facing barriers to accessing healthcare, testing, and other essential resources.

    Overall, the COVID-19 pandemic has led to significant changes in government control in Canada, with both positive and negative impacts on individuals and communities.

    In conclusion,

    As I reflect on the profound impact of the Covid-19 pandemic, I’m reminded of the resilience and adaptability that have defined my journey. Despite the unprecedented challenges and uncertainties, I’ve learned to navigate the new normal with courage and determination. From embracing virtual connections to finding creative outlets for self-expression, I’ve discovered that even in the midst of disruption, there lies opportunity for growth and transformation. As I continue to adapt to the evolving landscape, I remain committed to living my best life, fueled by a deep sense of hope, gratitude, and connection.

  • Little Lizzie

    Who is the most confident person you know?

    My Great Niece Elizabeth

    The most confident child that I know is my Great Niece Elizabeth.

    Me and Lizzie October 2012

    I met my great niece in October, 2012. She was only a couple weeks old. She’s my niece Tracy’s second daughter.

    My niece Tracy and I
    Her four daughters

    I loved her from the first moment that I laid eyes on her.

    Me and Lizzie

    She grew quickly and we knew she was growing to be a big girl,fast. She was already eating solid food at this point.

    She’s always smiling
    She loves lollipops
    She’s smart and creative

    Lizzie is never afraid to try something new. She explores every aspect of the process. She has an excellent memory and this helps her teach her sisters and friends how to do or play whatever she learns.

    Curious and brave.

    Beaming with confidence
    Can make something out of nothing

    In this picture she’s placing her fairy house in the backyard so the fairies have some where to stay. Getting older hasn’t dampened her enthusiasm for imagination and she always seems to be able to make something out of nothing. She shared her idea with her sisters and they all made fairy houses from my recycled cardboard.

    Fairy house
    Serinah
    Corine
    Lounging in the pool
    Beautiful and Confident Elizabeth 🥰

    In conclusion, my niece, Little Lizzie, is a shining example of confidence and compassion. What sets her apart is her unique approach to learning, driven by a desire to share and teach others. This selfless mindset not only fuels her confidence but also inspires those around her.

    A Natural-Born Leader
    Lizzie’s innate leadership skills are evident in her ability to create her own fun and encourage others to do the same. With a fearless spirit, she’s always ready to take the lead, navigating complex situations with ease and saving others from uncertainty. Her confidence is contagious, and those around her can’t help but be inspired by her courage and compassion.

    A Bright Future Ahead
    As Little Lizzie continues to grow and thrive, it’s clear that her unique blend of confidence, compassion, and leadership skills will serve her well. She’s a reminder that true confidence comes not from within oneself, but from the positive impact one has on others. I have no doubt that Lizzie’s bright future will be filled with joy, success, and the knowledge that she’s making a difference in the lives of those around her.