Facts May Be Peppered With Fiction

By Tracy Schruder

Honesty in writing is of the utmost importance, yet our unique perspectives and experiences shape the way we all tell our stories. Two people from the same family can recall the same event, but their memories and emotions can differ vastly. Our minds capture moments that leave a lasting impact, and these memories are often tied to strong emotions.

When we write about these experiences, our individual perspectives shine through. For instance, a childhood Christmas memory that was disappointing for me might be a fond memory for my sibling, simply because we had different expectations and experiences. When we share these stories, even with honesty, our words can be perceived differently by others who were present.

This can lead to challenges, especially from those who might nitpick or dispute our version of events. The paradox lies in the fact that our truth might not be someone else’s truth. When confronted with differing accounts, emotions can run high, and accusations of dishonesty can arise.

To avoid unnecessary conflict, I like to offer a warning to my readers: “Some facts may be peppered with fiction.”

I can only write from my own personal perceptions and memories. No harm is ever intended.

If you’re sensitive to differing perspectives, it might be best to approach my work with an open mind. For those who can appreciate the nuances, I’m glad you’re here to share in the journey.