What I’m Proud Of: The Beauty of Humility

What are you most proud of in your life?

By Tracy Schruder

As I reflected on what I’m proud of, a question echoed in my mind: “Can I be proud of something without being prideful?” It’s a debate I’ve had with myself, and one that’s helped me grow. For me, pride isn’t about ego or arrogance; it’s about acknowledging my accomplishments and feeling good about them.

I’ve always been sensitive to prideful behavior, feeling a searing sense of discomfort when I encounter it. But being proud of my work? That’s a different story. I’m proud of the help I give to others, of being a source of support and guidance.

In my work, I encourage others to acknowledge and appreciate their achievements without falling into arrogance. It’s about balance.

So, how can we cultivate a positive sense of pride without crossing into arrogance? For me, it’s about presence and humility.

Presence allows us to see things clearly, to recognize our efforts and accomplishments. Humility keeps us grounded, open to growth and learning.

When I’m proud of helping others, I’m not being prideful; I’m hitting the mark. I’m living my truth, and that’s what matters. It’s alright to be proud as long as we don’t let it go to our heads. Let’s celebrate our achievements and support each other in growth.